The internet can be a wild place, but every now and then, someone says something so vile that it snaps everyone back to reality. Recently, one particularly notorious internet troll crossed a line by bragging about having sexual conversations with a 17-year-old.
And it didn’t stop there.
He went even further, openly encouraging the “grooming” of minors and trashing adult women along the way. This wasn’t just a cringe moment. It exposed a whole community of people online who think like him. And it’s seriously scary.
“Grooming” Isn’t a Joke. It’s Calculated Exploitation.
This guy literally spelled it out: he prefers “naive” girls because they’re easier to manipulate.
He wasn’t talking about love or connection. He was talking about control.
The fact that he casually threw around the word groom says it all. Grooming isn’t harmless flirting. It’s a planned, deliberate effort to exploit people, usually minors, by breaking down their boundaries. And it gets worse.
He called adult women “komodo dragons” (seriously, what?) to insult them for being too smart, too confident, and too unwilling to tolerate his nonsense. That’s not a preference. That’s straight-up predatory behavior.
Not Everyone Was Quiet About It
When this trash hit the internet, reactions split fast.
On one hand, some men actually agreed with him, boldly revealing just how many men still see young girls as targets, not people. But on the other hand, there was a tidal wave of backlash. Women and men alike who called it out for exactly what it was: disgusting, illegal, and predatory behavior.
This wasn’t just another case of “people being problematic online.”
It showed, once again, that many people still don’t understand or care about consent, autonomy, and basic human decency.
Why “Innocence” is a Red Flag, Not a Compliment
Here’s the thing they don’t want you to notice: When predators talk about liking “innocent” girls, it’s not because innocence is cute or romantic.
It’s because innocence means less resistance. Less ability to say no. Less understanding of being exploited.
They aren’t looking for love. They’re looking for control over someone who hasn’t yet learned how to spot the red flags.
This isn’t “attraction.” It’s predatory targeting. Period.
Stop Believing the “19-Year-Olds Love Older Men” Myth
To make things even worse, these creeps try to sell the lie that “young girls naturally want older men.”
Spoiler alert: they don’t.
Most young women don’t dream of dating some guy in his 30s trying to relive his youth by preying on girls who still barely know what they want out of life. Real studies and real life experiences all point to the fact that these relationships often come from manipulation, not real attraction.
That “19-year-olds love older men” line? It’s just another excuse. And it’s built on delusion, not reality.
Why are grown men Obsessed with Dating 19 year Olds
In any country where the law actually works, the person who started this weird online conversation about dating 19-year-olds would’ve been arrested, charged, and probably slapped on a watchlist. No debates. No “but she’s legal” nonsense.
But of course, in Nigeria, what do we get instead? A bunch of men lining up to defend it. Making excuses. Acting like it’s normal to be a grown man chasing after teenagers.
Let’s be real: this isn’t just weird. It’s predatory.
It’s not about love, compatibility, or any of the lies they try to sell. It’s about power.
It’s about seeking out someone young enough not to spot manipulation, someone still figuring themselves out.
Grown men who chase teenagers aren’t looking for partners, they’re looking for control. And the more we call it out for what it is, the harder it becomes for predators to hide behind weak excuses.
We owe it to young women to protect their right to grow, live, and love freely without being hunted down by men who should know better.
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